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Everyone knows that BDSM is always super serious; submissives suffer with tormented looks of anguish on their faces while sadistic dominants look on with stoic, stony gazes.

NOT! BDSM is fun- we wouldn't do it if it wasn't :) There are plenty of pictures that portray fantasies of reluctance, force, non-consent, obedience, pain, and misery (or, conversely, arousal, desire, contentedness, transcendence, and spiritual awakening) . . . here's a little niche for pictures that capture the joy, happiness, silliness, giddiness, the smiles and the laughter.

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Confession: I quite like the "First World BDSM Problems" meme.  For starters, it’s funny and relatable … but I also like how it takes an unhappy BDSM image and flips it on its head- she’s not unhappy because she’s participating in BDSM, she’s unhappy because it’s not being done up to her standards!

And that’s not to say that a happy and fulfilled sub has to be smiling or grinning while they play (definitely not!), only that there’s something very fun about taking typical anti-BDSM logic (“Look at her face- are we supposed to believe this is normal or good?”) and retorting that maybe she’s just having a poor scene because her dom isn’t dishing it out the way she’d like.

— 1 year ago with 4574 notes
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    The last one made me laugh so hard. Poor woman.
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    Spencer’s sucks for sex stuff… *shifty eyes* IT WAS FOR A BACHELORETTE PARTY GAG GIFT! *runs away*
  10. mrshadesthoughts reblogged this from nofoxgiven and added:
    Oh god the “he bought his whip from spencer’s” wtf really i mean it what the fuck SPENCER’S IS NOT A GOOD BDSM SHOP it’s...
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  12. stuffmyvaginalikes reblogged this from glitterswitch and added:
    that first one. every damn time. also floss hurts like a bitch I dunno what she’s sad about that stuff is killer.
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    This is adorable.
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